tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-571561066858565279.post315230663764236512..comments2023-10-23T06:24:57.381-07:00Comments on Peanut's Page: "Dead Baby" (keep reading, you'll get it)Christina Weedonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11837135884247456861noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-571561066858565279.post-37551150700635004602008-02-18T19:11:00.000-08:002008-02-18T19:11:00.000-08:00christina- from one mother walking along this path...christina- from one mother walking along this path to another. it gets easier i know it does not feel like it no where you are but it does. I often tell myself just because you are the mother of a dead baby does not make you less of a mother. <BR/><BR/>I decided to leave my comment on this post because this term is one of the hardest to swallow. But after nearly 6 months i can read it and say these words without venom rising in my throat. I understand that the medical profession needs to remain clinical, but i am also the first one to correct them when the refer to my loss as "fetal demise" i tell them why don't we call her Lucy we did give her a name. and then they realize and the agree ok Lucy it is.<BR/><BR/>Brody's life matters most in your heart and in you husbands heart. what is written on a hospital report or record means little in the grand scheme and as you remember him you will be comforted. IN time there will be NO word that is used to describe your child that will hurt less than these two. but there are many that can that will take away your pain. LOVED, MISSED, WANTED, CARED FOR you get the picture.<BR/><BR/>sending you many peaceful thoughts and wishing you peace, light and love on you journey toward healing and trying again.<BR/><BR/>~christine (Lucy's mom)Olive Lucyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16639113062020312020noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-571561066858565279.post-32588748608465725852007-12-20T22:10:00.000-08:002007-12-20T22:10:00.000-08:00I love you baby!I love you baby!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com